Winter by the Water

Romanticizing Cold Coastal Days

There’s something about winter by the water that feels softer, quieter—like the world is taking a deep breath. The summer crowds are long gone, the salty breeze carries a sharper chill, and the ocean hums in a way that feels just for you. While the beach towns may be hibernating, there’s still magic to be found in the colder months—if you know how to embrace it. Considering we just got about five inches of snow, I’d say I have to start embracing it finally.

So let’s romanticize winter by the water, shall we? Here are a few cozy rituals to make the season feel just as enchanting as summer sunsets and salty skin.

1. Bundled-Up Beach Strolls

There’s nothing quite like an early morning walk when the world is still wrapped in fog, the air crisp and heavy with salt. Layer up in your coziest sweater, grab a warm drink, and wander along the shoreline, letting the sound of the waves replace your morning playlist. Beach towns in the off-season have an eerie, beautiful quietness—like they’re whispering stories meant only for those who stick around.

2. Reading by the Fire (with an Ocean View if possible)

Winter is the perfect excuse to slow down, and what better way than curling up by a fire with a book that transports you? Whether it’s a well-loved beach read (Anything Elin Hilderbrand will give you coastal vibes) or something new, there’s nothing cozier than reading while the wind howls outside and the ocean crashes in the distance. Bonus points for sipping coffee or a glass of wine while you do it.

3. Bringing the Coastal Charm Indoors

Just because it’s too cold for beach days doesn’t mean you can’t bring that feeling inside. Fill your space with flickering candles that smell like cedar and sea salt, drape yourself in a chunky knit blanket, and play your favorite Nancy Meyers playlist that reminds you of sun-bleached summers. The coastal life isn’t just for warm weather—it’s a state of mind.

4. Indulging in a Slow, Cozy Meal

Winter by the water calls for a hearty chowder, fresh sourdough, and a glass of something rich and red. Take the time to cook something that warms you from the inside out—whether it’s a nostalgic family recipe or something new you’ve been meaning to try. Set the table, light a candle, and make dinner an occasion.

5. Watching the Storms Roll In

There’s a special kind of thrill in watching a winter storm over the ocean. The waves turn wild, the sky darkens, and for a moment, nature feels untamed. Whether you’re watching from the window of a seaside inn or bundled up in your car with a coffee, there’s something so grounding about witnessing the power of the sea.

Winter by the water isn’t just a season—it’s a mood, a feeling, a slower way of moving through the world. And maybe, just maybe, it’s a reminder that the beauty of the coast isn’t just in the sun-drenched days of summer, but in the quiet, cozy moments, too.

What’s your favorite way to romanticize the colder months?

Valentine's Day Date Night Ideas in Rhode Island

From cozy seaside dinners to unique local experiences.

I recently started a substack but thought I would share some of my posts and thoughts back on here as well. It has been quite some time since I shared anything on here but I wanted to get back into writing and I thought it would be fun to suggest some Valentine’s Day date night ideas for those in the Ocean State. Here are my top five suggestions for those of you also living in this tiny state.

1. A Seaside Dinner at Castle Hill Inn (Newport)

Indulge in an elegant, waterfront dining experience with a prix-fixe Valentine’s Day menu. Enjoy stunning views of Narragansett Bay while savoring fresh, seasonal dishes paired with wine. Bonus points if you time it with the sunset.

2. Couples’ Skating at Providence Rink

For something playful and cozy, lace up your skates and glide under the twinkling lights of the Providence Rink. Now if you know me, this would not be something I would necessarily choose due to my weak ankles or disdain for ice skating but they do have ice bumper cars that I enjoy. Either way, it’s something to do if that’s your cup of tea. Warm up afterward with cocktails (or mocktails!) at a nearby spot like The Eddy.

3. Cozy Igloos at The Loom Hotel/The Brook Kitchen + Bar (Warwick)

Snuggle up in one of the enchanting outdoor igloos at The Brook Kitchen + Bar. I may be biased since I may or may not have something to do with this spot but these private, heated spaces offer a unique dining experience perfect for Valentine’s Day. Pair your evening with their thoughtfully curated menu and seasonal cocktails for a truly magical night. (Make your reservation on OpenTable and follow them on social! K thanks!)

4. A Historic Evening in Wickford Village

Stroll hand-in-hand through this charming coastal village, dotted with boutique shops and art galleries. Finish the evening with dinner at Tavern by the Sea, known for its cozy ambiance and delightful menu or head a town over to East Greenwich and try one of the amazing restaurants there. A few favorites would be Providence Oyster Bar of EG, Meritage, or Sombra.

5. Staycation with a Romantic Dinner at The Weekapaug Inn (Westerly)

Book an overnight stay at this luxurious inn or simply enjoy a romantic dinner overlooking the water. Their farm-to-table menu and serene setting make for an unforgettable Valentine’s Day. While I haven’t had the opportunity to spend the night in the inn yet, everything about this property is a dream. It is definitely on my Rhode Island bucket list.


Let me know if you choose to spend your Valentine’s Day at one of these classic Rhode Island spots.

Best Skinny Margarita Recipe for Quarantine

When quarantine started, I decided to run to the liquor store since apparently all the wine we have was not enough. I wanted to make a skinny margarita recipe I found on Pinterest (follow mine!), had never actually bought tequila before unless I was at a bar so I took a guess and grabbed Espolòn. Thankfully it did not disappoint.

I ended up creating the absolute best skinny margarita recipe ever. I combined a few different recipes I found so I figured I would type up the complete thing for you. The only reason I use the word “skinny” is because it doesn’t use the typical margarita mix that has tons of sugar. The below skinny margarita recipe is for one singular drink but you can obviously double, triple, heck quadruple if you are making more. Please excuse these awful iPhone photos but I didn’t realize people would end up asking for the recipe. haha

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Best Skinny Margarita Recipe for Quarantine

Ingredients:

  • tequila (apparently I prefer Espolòn)

  • flavored sparkling water - I used lime flavored clear splash brand and also got blood orange to try again soon. In general, like sparkling water over seltzer because of flavor but to each their own. Use what you like.

  • a quarter of a lime juiced

  • a quarter of a lemon juiced

  • a quarter of an orange juiced

  • sea salt

  • Trader Joe’s Chili Lime seasoning - not necessary

  • ice cubes

Instructions:

Combined sea salt and chili lime seasoning on a small dish. Cut your lime, lemon, and orange into quarters. Use your piece of lime to wet the rim of your favorite cocktail glass and then dip into your seasoning. Add a few ice cubes to your glass and pour in 1.5 ounces of your chosen tequila. I used a shot glass and a half for measuring purposes. Fill your glass with flavored sparkling water about 3/4 of the way full, leaving room for your fresh fruit juices. Squeeze a quarter of your lime, a quarter of your lemon, and a quarter of your orange into the drink. I finished mine off with a pinch of the chili seasoning on top for extra spice and cuteness.

Since we are in quarantine, I suggest enjoying this skinny margarita recipe via facetime or zoom with your besties! That is what we did and it definitely made things a bit sweeter.

If you decide to make my “best skinny margarita recipe for quarantine” please tag me so I can see and enjoy with you! You can also pin the below images to save the recipe for later. Don’t forget to let me know what you think!

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Rhode Island Restaurant Bucket List

It feels like we have not been out to eat in ages. I started this quarantine a bit earlier than everyone else, March 10th, since I was sick (unrelated to COVID-19). There is so much going on right now that I have been looking for the positives and trying to focus on the future knowing that we will get through this.

I thought I would start a Rhode Island bucket list of things I want to do when we get to return to “normal” life. I am going to start by sharing the restaurants that I want to try. I cannot believe how many places I have not had the chance to eat.

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Without further adieu, here is my Rhode Island Restaurant Bucket List.

Newport

  • Mission

  • Winner Winner

  • Cru

  • Belle’s Cafe

  • Pasta Beach

  • TSK - Thames Street Kitchen

  • Bar ‘Cino

Providence

  • Plant City

  • The River Social

  • Birch

  • Bayberry Beer Hall

  • Blackie’s (Smithfield)

  • Hometown Poké

  • Bucktown

  • Gracie’s

  • Oberlin

East Greenwich

  • Revival

  • Greenwich Bay Oyster Bar

  • Safehouse

  • The Patio

  • PB Bistro & Bar **Honorable mention since it is not opened yet! I am so excited for this plant-based restaurant to open.

Keep in mind that those lists are not in any specific order. They are all places that I have not tried but heard good things about! (I should probably be embarrassed that I haven’t tried some but it is what it is. haha)

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2020 Vision: Mood Board

At the beginning of the year I created a mood board to make my desktop background and inspire me for the year to come. I included things that related to different goals and plans of mine; savings, relationships, photography, fashion, home, and travel.

I was going to write and explain everything but I don’t think that everyone needs to know every single thing and meaning. Instead, why not make your own? It was very therapeutic and easy. I did it in photoshop but it is definitely doable on canva.com. That site is free, easy, and can provide you with free photos to use as well. I found my photos on Pinterest and via Nordic Retreats (a goal). The graphics I created myself.

If you decide to make one, tag me in it so I can see or send it via email.

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Navigating the Waves of Life

Growing up, my aunt always taught us that when a rough wave came in the ocean, you go deep.  You go under the chaos to avoid the impact zone.  I never realized how that applied to life until I read a quote about it online (If you recognize the theory, please tell me. This isn’t the exact quote because it was forever ago and I don’t remember nor can I find it).

If you tried to run back to shore, it would eventually catch you and knock you down. If you tried to stand up against it, it would slam you under it’s strength.  If you go under it, go deep, you get through it.

Take a deep breath, put your head down, and go deep.

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Fair Seas Supply Co.

In August I had reached out to Fair Seas Supply Co. in regards to a photoshoot to expand my product photography. Tiffany, the owner of the company, insists on using eco-friendly materials for their products and packaging and they work with factories who provide good working conditions and fair wages. I love that Fair Seas and Tiffany loves the ocean as much as I do. The company uses organic cotton because it is grown pesticide and insecticide free and with less water than traditional cotton. The Fair Seas Supply Co. website explains that the organic cotton is sourced from the Aegean region in Turkey, which I have been and it is STUNNING. The site also says that cotton from this area has extra long fibers, making it much more durable and long-lasting, another amazing aspect.

I love the way the photos came out and wanted to share some with all of you.

 
 



The Chanler's Peanut Butter and Jelly Pop-up

I was fortunate enough to have a Wednesday off last week and my mom and sister came up to Rhode Island to visit. It was probably the best 3 days I have had in a long time. It was full of fun and laughing until we cried (or at least I was hysterical haha). Knowing that they would be making the trip, I had my mind set on going to the The Chanler’s Peanut Butter and Jelly Pop-up.

Quick background… I LOVE peanut butter and jelly. I have had PB+J burgers, fried PB+J, PB+J ice cream. I can’t say no to one. They are nostalgic, delicious, and I can’t burn them.

Convincing my sister, who does NOT like jelly, was the hardest part but once we got passed that, it was smooth sailing. Most New Englander’s know that we have been plagued with rain for weeks. Luckily, it was beautiful outside the entire time they were here so we headed into Newport.

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I took them to see the daffodils since they were still out in full force and then we headed to Loren Hope’s beautiful new shop (I’ll share pictures of that later!). We shopped and worked up an appetite. It was time for my favorite!

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The second I read the menu online, I knew I was going to get The Heavyweight and that my mom would get Sweet Tooth. Thankfully we decided to give each other a bite so I could have a taste. My sister also got The Heavyweight and let me tell you, both were absolutely incredible. We could not believe how absolutely delicious they were. The flavors were all there and it was definitely not a simple PB+J sandwich. I won’t lie to you though, we ended up not doing a wine pairing because my mom and I wanted Bloody Mary’s and my sister chose a margarita.

We sat outside and enjoyed our sandwiches while watching the waves crash onto the shore. I could not have been happier than I was in that moment.

You all must go check out The Chanler’s peanut butter and jelly pop-up before it closes on May 20th. You might even see me there testing out the other flavors. haha Who wants to go?!

Sweet Tooth - peanut butter, nutella, banana, strawberry, rolled in a fried flatbread

Sweet Tooth - peanut butter, nutella, banana, strawberry, rolled in a fried flatbread

The Heavyweight - pretzel roll, crunchy peanut butter, bacon, cherry jam, and sliced apples

The Heavyweight - pretzel roll, crunchy peanut butter, bacon, cherry jam, and sliced apples

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Newport, Rhode Island's Daffodil Days

Newport, Rhode Island’s Daffodil Days are the best kick off to spring.  I know its no Nantucket but it is as close as I’ll get this time of year. Discover Newport holds monthly marketing meetings for local businesses and the Daffy Days committee brought a map to show us the best spots to see all the blooms.  Naturally, I grabbed one so I could share with all of you where to find the best spot to take photos.

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When you cross the bridge onto the island, you will immediately be greeted by blooming daffodils.  If you head towards downtown, they will be on your right when you come to the stop sign and if that kind of welcome doesn’t make you smile, I don’t know what will.  Every day when they are blooming, I am reminded how lucky I am to work on such a pretty little piece of land. Everyone in town has planted their own but the committee has clumped bulbs in specific locations for your viewing as well.  More than twenty-five thousand bulbs in each spot to be exact and 1,000,000 total. Holy smokes.

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If you head to the daffy days' website, here, you will find the lay of the land as well as an entire calendar of events for the next two weeks (starting Friday, April 12, 2019).  I will highlight a few of my favorites here for you though.

Saturday, April 13, 2019

Daffodil Days Opening Ceremonies - Bannister’s and Bowen’s Wharf from 1:00 to 2:00 pm

Daffy Doggie Paw-rade (probably the best idea ever) - Queen Anne’s Square from 2:00 to 3:00 pm

Daffy Doggie Post Parade “Pawty” (again, amazing) - Hotel Viking from 3:30 to 4:30 pm

Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Go Daffy at Green Animals Topiary Garden - Green Animals from 2:00 to 3:00 pm

Saturday, April 20, 2019

Beach Cleanup at the Cliff Walk (since you all know I’m pretty passionate about our oceans) - Cliff Walk from 12:00 to 2:00 pm


There are also parades, strolls, and races for you all to enjoy.  Seriously, check out their website. Don’t forget to show me your pictures if you take any!

The Best Place to Find Sea Glass in Rhode Island

Without fail, every time T and I walk Little Lady Dakota at a park near the house, I hunt (and usually find) sea glass.  I live for collecting little treasures along the coast. I thought it would be a good idea to round up some of the best places to find sea glass in Rhode Island.  A few I have not yet been to but I have been informed by a few trusted sources ;). Here it goes, in no particular order..

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The Best Place to Find Sea Glass in Rhode Island

Colt State Park, Bristol

I read some articles of people spending just an hour here and finding over 20 pieces of stunning sea glass. One hunter said, “it has the most sea glass they have ever seen anywhere.” I’m guessing this person needs to get out more but for Rhode Island sea glass hunters, it must be good.

Goddard Park, East Greenwich

This was the park I was talking about!  There is a little trail we take Dakota on and it leads to a tiny back beach.  I am always able to find a piece or two when we go.

Compass Rose Beach, North Kingstown

This shoreline is often used to launch small boats but it is exposed from the south so often times the surf will wash up some great glass.

Easton’s Beach, Newport, Rhode Island

Easton’s Beach, Newport, Rhode Island

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Conimicut Point Park, Warwick

At low tide, walk out along the sand bar.  Just make sure you make it back before the tide starts to rise.

Rocky Point, Warwick

Rocky Point used to be an amusement park but is now a great place to find sea glass in Rhode Island.  I would not consider it a beach, but if you walk along the small stretch of sand below the paved path, you will be sure to find something.

Block Island, Rhode Island - North Light

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Block Island

Although you have to take a ferry to get there, Block Island is one of my favorite spots in the state.  I hear Crescent Beach is one of the island’s best places to find sea glass. I plan on going next time we head out to sea.  I was also told by a follower, Brooke, that North Light is a good place to look as well. The only time we ventured there, we had to quickly snap a few pictures and then jump on our mopeds to be back in time to return them but next time, I will for sure hop off and search for some glass.

Rose Island

My friend, Kayla, suggested I add this lovely little island to this list and I cannot believe I didn’t think of it.  I have still yet to go, but I am dying to spend the night in Rose Island Lighthouse. This island is in the middle of Newport Harbor/Narragansett Bay so I can only imagine the treasure that washes up here.

*Shell Hunting Bonus* Easton’s Beach, Newport

I have never gone sea glass hunting here but I am always able to find huge shells during the off season along this beach.  My work has a venue that sits right on the edge of Easton’s and there are always little treasures to take home at the end of the day.

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